Here I am at a turning point in my life. I have split from my partner of 7 years,nothing too messy but he is still living in my house for another 3 weeks!!

I feel like i`ve forgotten how to be me,or should I say the new me as menopause is changing my attitude, tolerance and views on life.

How do i want to live;

Healthier all round

Nice tidy less cluttered home

To be able to breathe…if that makes sense.

So here I am just out of the shower on a Friday evening…what do I want?

A few days out to visit different areas of the UK, I'd love to visit Scotland, the scenery looks amazing when I see it on social media.

Go abroad once a year, probably 5 night Sun - Fri as i feel i have a day to finishing packing before i go plus 2 day when i come back to do the washing and getting in order for the rest of the working week

Otherwise I just want a simple stress-reduced life and enjoy what's going on rather than rushing around trying to do everything… so i guess i need to add organisation to my list.